Read the Kama Sutra(illustrated version), and/or buy the book "101 Grrreat Quickies" by Laura Corn. It's got ideas for games and stuff. The pages(quickies) are sealed and there are some for you to do and some for him to do. Here's one: "For him to unzip: Within ten minutes of receiving this coupon, the recipient-wearing only her best jewelry and a smile, will glide up and artfully surprise the bearer." Cool stuff! I love this book!