^You need to educate yourself a little more my friend, orgasims can be held and lasted for up for awhile (if you practice tantantric sex). Also the female orgasm doesn't take long to happen for some woman, clitaral action and the correct use of the g-spot are helpful if the man knows what his doing.

"most guys cum within 4 mins" I don't come when I get oral, but I do orgasm.