i definitely have to say personality. however, i am usually drawn to "unique" looking guys anyways. i always fall for the ones who are cute-but-nerdy, or have a really original style, or a different kind of beauty. I find them much more attractive and down-to-earth than the cookie cutter "hot guy". Plus, bonus, they are usually more receptive to my own looks and personality, because i'm not "hot", but i still consider myself an attractive girl, and i know i have a really strong personality too.