Personality vs. Looks

[Skink]

Just so happens I know this woman for 3 years... Her personality is great,she even thinks like me,,,"Oh Gawg"...

Her looks will not allow me to open the door,so I guess I am shallow and prefer the looks...

[beachguy in thongs]

Everyone says I have a hot girlfriend. The reason why I live with her, and have been close to her, for five years is because of her "sweet" personality. Her looks are what attracted me, right off the bat. Behind that sweet personality was a different person than me. She gets tense when I'm angry and, usually, cuts me off to combat, and she thinks I'm getting angry everyday. But, she reads me totally wrong, and when I do get angry, doesn't know how to avoid actually getting me angry by saying something to cut me off to then make me cut her off, getting lost in trying to explain myself, and that gets me angry.

Plus, she's a Virgo and I'm an Aries. I read that that union is "one to avoid".

[Wesley Pipes]

i'd say both but personality would beat looks, i'd rather be with the average looking girl with heaps of personality than a hot girl with no personality

[Dopa]

i definitely have to say personality. however, i am usually drawn to "unique" looking guys anyways. i always fall for the ones who are cute-but-nerdy, or have a really original style, or a different kind of beauty. I find them much more attractive and down-to-earth than the cookie cutter "hot guy". Plus, bonus, they are usually more receptive to my own looks and personality, because i'm not "hot", but i still consider myself an attractive girl, and i know i have a really strong personality too.

Just admit it B**CH. You are a shallow cunt. All b*tches are alike.

[TakeFlight]

nobodys mentioned the butter face girls, everythings nice but her face

[orangeman]

For me it's a mixture. I do go for looks but if they're fuckin psycho I rather not fuck wit 'em lol. But I have a girl that has gooood looks and a really smooth personality. I feel like God blessed me with her or something, we have soooo much in common lol.

[SensiRide]

Its a hard one.
Obviously the first thing you notice about someone in their looks, but looks fade, and after a few months, personality definately matters - I've went out with some really nice looking guys, only to find out after a few weeks into the relationship, they're as thick as shit and cant engage in a decent conversation with me and when that happens, you suddenly dont find this person attractve anymore because all you see when you look at them is stupidity.

I hate good looking people that love themselves and walk about with an air of conceit, I mean, what a turnoff. Get over yourself, it doesnt matter how gorgeous you are, if you are conceited, you arent going to get very far.

Anyway, to cut a long story short, if you're looking for a long term relationship, personality is the most important aspect.
If you're looking for a one night stand then I guess it would have to be looks.

[orangeman]

I hate good looking people that love themselves and walk about with an air of conceit, I mean, what a turnoff. Get over yourself, it doesnt matter how gorgeous you are, if you are conceited, you arent going to get very far.

I totally agree, unfortunately my sister is one of those people lol.

[MikeNugz]

Looks are one of those things that you go for on a sexually induced stupor and that artificially keep you happy. I mean some people, sure, may actually be happy with the trophy wife stereotype, I'll admit I've looked now and again, but in the end a winning personality is more beautiful and attractive than anything on this planet. It's indescribable. Hey I won't knock the possibility of there being a good personality in a few of those chicks that everyone knows, you know the one that has every season of sex and the city on dvd, gucci shades, a prada hand bag, but personally I wouldn't waste my time. later.

[MikeNugz]

I hate good looking people that love themselves and walk about with an air of conceit, I mean, what a turnoff. Get over yourself, it doesnt matter how gorgeous you are.

Yeah I agree with Sensi on this one, Orangeman you aren't alone my sibling is also a conceited annoyance. I just blow it off. Haha. I love her but damn. I think she loves herself even more.