From where "we've" been to where we are, you are absolutely in the first group you mentioned. You are mature enough to come and say, okay, so what about this? And even if you don't believe, any of it. You are behaving christ-like by being accepting, and non-judgmental.

My argument with FLESH was the existance in god period. That is a sad thing I feel. I don't really care about anything else, as long as it is something that makes you happy, and not scared. I believe in re-incarnation, but I don't care if anyone else does. That isn't something that matters, we will all find out the truth by experience when that time comes.

God's existance is worth defending, I am sure you agree

Eva