i do have kids but my little girl wants to live with her dad and he could provide for them much better than i can. materialistic things arent everything i know but they would get every thing they need from him, and as for emotionally i'm a wreck moody and misserable all the time i get cross easily and cry alot no child needs to see their mum like that day in and day out, it cant be a healthy environment for them to grow up in.maybe it'd be better for them if i wasnt around screwing stuff up.