man reach into your pants and grab your balls.fuck that.if shes making you feel uncomfortable you should squash that.your the man.you pay your shit and shes just coming and going.especially if she dont want to play with the kids but rather leave sounds like you shouldnt feel guilty.if it was me id a made that bitches night horrible.if you use your words wisely there is no way shell have fun when she goes out.master the guilt trip.valuable tool against females.