one word alcohal. lol besides that I find when your trying to hook up with a girl outside of some wild party you gotta find a girl thats right for you. So just kinda speak your mind if you go saying what she wants to hear and you end up with the chick then eventually when you both start speaking your mind things can get rough. So when your girl surfing speak to her as if you were speaking to a close friend. Chances are if your far from your average joe then your gonna get turned down alot but eventually you will find some1 like you. Offcourse dont let getting rejected get you down cause even if your in a small city chances are next time you guys see each other you wont reconize each other. Unless you like went allout freakshow and she pulled out the peperspray then I would reccomend you change your lifestyle a bit before dating. If your going to just get some skin then alcohal is your best bet fast and effective and you barely have to do a thang