act like you dont' want her.... girls usually want what they can't have.. gay guys for example.... i've found that if you act like you dont' want them, then they decide they want you... think of it as a game of who can act like they dont' want the other the longest.... if both of you really do want it, someone's going to break sooner or later...if she doesn't just start doing stuff to you then they usually get this pissed off tone in their voice and ask stuff along the lines of "do you not find me attractive" "what am i doing wrong" and so on.. once there was this girl that i had just met, and she started hanging out in my room all the damn time so i knew she wanted me, so i just acted like a friend (tho every moment i wanted to rip her clothes off and go hog wild <.<) eventually, one time when i was just talking i think telling her about my family or something, she jumped on me basicly and started makin g out with me, following with phrases like "i want you" "you're so sexy" and so on... i lost my virginity that day.