lol yeah the seeds are jut seeds if u break it apart usually they fall onto the table or magazine ect...and uve must of seen leaves and shit so stems are obvious i cant believe u asked about those two...lol and mmm just buy a grinder for like $10-$20 bucks it makes breaking up fast...and we cant tell u if u got ripped off bc we dont know how much u bought how much u payed and what it is..so im sorry but we need more info and the rest u will learn over time just smoke with ppl who have been for a long time and u will learnt the tips and secrets and stuff...