game? who said anything about a game, life and love are not games u only get one shot then u die, u urself r telling guys what to say, so how can we really mean it if we thought about it beforehand, words like "i love u" should come from the moment and from the heart and should not be scripted, when/if i get married, for example, i will say my own vows... i will not write them a month/week/day before the wedding, i say what i feel at the excact moment the priest or whatever says "now say your vows" cuz then and only then will i know that my words have come from the heart. I see this thread as tips on how to make a girl fall in love with u when in reality she SHOULD love u for who u r, not who u pretend to be cuz how can u trust someone without hearing their OWN words instead of a script.