I didnt create the game I just figured out the rules. Where have you ever heard anyone talk about a womans second language vernicular of "womanese" or the fact that she "tests" , both of which are a huge part of "the game" in the beginning. Did I invent that? Or did I learn to respond to it?

If you can't cant create doubt by making the game an emotional challenge you will be labeled "nice" in other words NOT emotionally challenging. Dont believe me? ask any woman. What happens when your "nice". Your history. So being yourself in that way does not work.

Who said anything about a submissive reaction. I just got through talking about mutual respect which is the foundation for love. I have no idea what you mean. Neither party is being manipulated or forced into submission.

For her to love you intensely a man must do these things or she will quickly loose interest in you.


There are five versions of "the game" and I think people misunderstand me at times. This version is the one where you dont get hurt and she loves you intesely and it is the one she responds to in a positive way. The other versions of "the game", each gender has two, will hurt you and will hurt her. So I dont want you to throw all the "games" into one definition.


And why would this version of the game suggest that I am not serious about that person when I am talking extensively about trust to begin with! and not about sex? Is an extensive talk about trust manipulating? Is proper body language manipulation? and being a challenge is not manipulation because you just confirmed what I said in your last sentence.


"head over heals", what do think a woman is talking about when she means "swept off my feet"? Confirm everything along the way and she will find you boring. Youll never hear the real reason why you got dumped.

I have dated some tough women in the last 20 years and if you dont have a clue about the "game" she likes ,your gone, its as simple as that, I dont care what you look like or how much money you have or what you own.

"Be real,love, challenge and be challenged" (your words). What is the difference between doubt and challenge? Those two words are brothers to one another. In "asking a woman out the right way" I think I already covered the concepts of Challenge,Confidence, and Self control from the beginning.

"the divorced box" is a result of men getting lazy. They dont do the things that attracted her in the first place. They think "shes mine now work is over". Challenge is continuation throughout dating and marriage. Divorce is most likely the result of resentment from using her as a one way emotional gas station and getting dinged in the trust department.

"People that play games in their relationships arent serious about them to begin with"
(your words)
"Be real, challenge and be challenged"
(your words)
Now seems to me you just contradicted yourself. Isnt being a challenge a form of "the game"? Why not just say here, take me as I am if you want to be yourself.