dudes, i lost my virginity (and took his too) to the MOST PERFECT MAN I COULD EVER ASK FOR. i wouldnt have given it to anyone else and i am so happy i lost it to him. we dated for three years and had (decent) sex (we were young). it wasnt until he enlisted and we decided to break it off that i started my promiscuity. i am waiting till i find my true love again that i want to settle down with to slow down my sex life. right now, i am enjoying being single and i have decided to stick with a few reliable men (before i was pretty insane) and occassionally sleep with someone new. so dont give me your shit on love + sex. i fell in love, had sex, then fell out of love and im still having sex. and for your information most of thoseguys i have slept with were'nt more than a one-time thing. they couldnt satify me, so i cut it off with no worries. and yes i am 100% clean and prtoected. just because i have a lot of sex doesnt mean i am stupid and go unprotected. gimme a break here!