I agree with that, but my mother died 4 years ago, and my dad has stepped up to raise me like my mom and my dad at the same time, besides my own emotional issues about my mom, I live a decent life, my brother helped raise me right, and I look at him as if he was my mother because he resembles her so much, and believes the same way she did, me and my dad fight a lot but nevertheless we had bonded more since what happened. Basically for the past 4 years I was raised by two guys and I'm generally normal.