but the diffarence is this guy is part of tthis community and we all should feel obliged to help him and his family out as its what we need to do if anyone on this site was in the same prodicament then i would do the same thats what we should do help them out so come on you all ten bucks man or what ever you can do to help them out. I have spoke to this guy on the phone he seems a proud guy but when your kids are the subject then all the proud shit goes out the window they are the ones who need achristmas so do what you can help out this guy if you can its christmas man give a little love to this family i am .