Dating: Tough guys, nice guys, gentlemen

[heavymetal101]

Umm, I'm not tryin to be offensive, but dude, why are you going totry to post on HERE what kind of girl a guy should match himself up with??? Thats pretty dumb. Becuase it doesnt matter if your dating a good boy or a bad boy, some people like'em good and some bad. What I'm tryin to say is, is that I know a girl and she's dating one of my good friends and she's a little goody goody prep. They've been together for years and he's never cheated on her or nothin. I also have a really good friend whos a bad boy and he's dating a bad girl. JUst goes to show that it doesnt matter how you act becuase your attracted to they personality, wether it be good or bad

heavymetal101 Reviewed by heavymetal101 on 12-12-2005. Dating: Tough guys, nice guys, gentlemen This little bit of advice will save you a lot pain when dealing with women. Most guys dont know how to align themselves when dealing with miss right. I will tell you a secret about the three of these personality types and why you only want to be one and why women find that only (one) type is the most attractive quality in a guy she is looking for. What is a gentleman? First what is a toughguy/macho guy and why does this guy fail with women. Imagine a spectrum line. To the far left Rating: 5

[heavymetal101]

but I go with the bad boys myself

[hank]

It doesn't matter what style u are. As long as you are confident, and avoid the things women hate, you will be fine

1. Nerd (Socially Uneducated)
2. Mommy's Boy
3. Insecure
Doing things just to get attention
Cannot maintain eye contact
Nervous fidgety body language
Emotional
Talking negatively about past girlfriends
Hanging on to a women, or kissing their ass and asking for permission to do things
Not being in control in general


Personally, being funny and cocky worked best for me though, but it doesn't matter what style you are,, as long as you don't do #1,2,3 you will be well off. Input from women? Don't you hate #1,2,3?

[hank]

I think the key is not style, it is acting secure of yourself, and not acting like that one girl is the most important thing in the world. If you become the selectee, not the selected, then it will help you. Once you realize that there are many girls out there and they want a man in control of themselves when they interact with the man, then things will change. There are too many nice guys out there for hot women, ... every guy acts nice to them. A gentleman is styled, but a gentleman should not be insecure, he should be cocky and funny? At the same time, thats how he portrays higher class and how he is more carefree than the others, never hang on to any individual ...

Yeah, and do what works. Remember, #1,2,3 doesn't work. Trust me, when I say this. I learned that from a girl-friend we were like best of friends and she helped me tremendously in terms of what women want, so believe it or not.

[heavymetal101]

yea guys should for sure be in control. not like where he's the king or whatever but he should be you know the MAN.

[hank]

I know some dominant women who like pussy men, and submissive women, but let me tell you

That's not where you want to be, (tied to a tree and whipped)

Peace

[Ganjasaurusrex]

I read all your replies. Im diggn the diversity of opinion! Thanks, I never stop learning!

[lateralus]

rough sex is hot.

I never stop learning!

@!#

[Unregistered Felon]

Well I'm an asshole!
I keep to myself till someone fucks with friends or family, then they are done!
I'll treat my woman good though, she puts up with ME!
Alot of people just don't get me and I don't care.
I tune out in public and just ignore everyone except my woman.
People tend to leave me be, LOL
It might be the tats though?
I never had a problem with women, they like bad boys just fine.
I would keep my bike slightly outta tune.
To be sure it was ready when we got home LOL
People are like puzzle pieces just cause 2 don't fit doesn't mean they are wrong.
They just don't fit together that's all.

U F

[flamingskullballs]

to tell you the truth, i used to be the nice guy...now im more of a gentleman, if you want a soda ill get it for you, but im NOT going to buy you a wedding cake while im at it