Quote Originally Posted by Make it Hempen
I think before anyone else sees something cool in you, you gotta see something cool in you. Sounds cheesy, but when a guy has confidence (not cocky, but comfortable with who he is), it shows and girls are attracted to that. You may find that you want more than just the sex part.

If a man can impress me with intelligence and open-mindedness, I'd hit it.

- Kate
i like to take pride in my openmindedness and somewhat my intelligence, i dont have anything against myself, im perfectly content with who i am, it's just everyone else who seems to have a problem

and this is deffenitely not just about sex, i want someone who i can share a good long conversation with, and even just enjoy their prescence, sex is deffenitely wanted, but it's not everything.