Well then stop talking like you know, it makes things more confusing.

Preface your 'possibilities' with

"well it's possible that...."

instead of jumping right in and stating your possibilities as fact. If I knew you just thought of them as theories, and didn't actually believe you had any proof behind them beyond a guess, I wouldn't keep inquiring.

And if you presented them as POSSIBILITIES instead of as fact, debating with you would be interesting, rather then annoying. Because 99% of the time I read your possibilities stated as fact and think "How can he possibly think he has proof of this rather then just taking a guess like everyone else is?"

I'm sober and leaving. Peas.