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[PassTheBlunt420]

hey. i like this girl but shes like "with" some guy not boyfriend and girlfriend but i doubt she would go out with me anyways because theres so many other guys out there that she could choose from if she wanted to i guess im friendly with her but other than that we dont chill or anything.

Anyone have any scenarios like this or can help me
thx
:rasta:

PassTheBlunt420 Reviewed by PassTheBlunt420 on 12-07-2005. Q hey. i like this girl but shes like "with" some guy not boyfriend and girlfriend but i doubt she would go out with me anyways because theres so many other guys out there that she could choose from if she wanted to i guess im friendly with her but other than that we dont chill or anything. Anyone have any scenarios like this or can help me thx :rasta: Rating: 5

[MudFu]

I can warn you of something. Don't make friends with her before you ask her out, at least not good friends. The last time I waited to get to know a girl and become better friends before I asked her out she said that we were to close and she saw me only as a friend...If I would have asked around when I met her she said she would have went out with me.

[zomg]

hey. i like this girl but shes like "with" some guy not boyfriend and girlfriend but i doubt she would go out with me anyways because theres so many other guys out there that she could choose from if she wanted to i guess im friendly with her but other than that we dont chill or anything.

Anyone have any scenarios like this or can help me
thx
:rasta:

dude, this shit sucks, ive got the exact same thing going on but i cant cuz i know the guy shes like kinda with...but shes all sexual to me and she loves showing off her body to me, clothed before hot tub but naked after...wtf am i supposed to do? lol we are stuck man, sry to hear

[PassTheBlunt420]

dayum

[420kidder]

I was friends with a girl for 11 years, since we were 14, when we were 15 (this year) I told her how I have feelings for her, and she pretty much said that she was sorry to hear that and hoped we could stay friends.

I thought it was me although she said it wasn't, but then I realized that all of her boyfriends were lower on a 1 - 10 scale than I would be, so I don't think it's really me. She basically said the brother/sister thing, that was enough. lol. I've had other similar experiences though.

To answer your question, you have to do what feels right. If you think you have no chance, maybe you don't, and maybe you won't. But if you think you do, maybe you do and maybe you will. I'm not saying it's in your head, but I'm saying you can tell better than we can. Sometimes people can be surprised. Maybe she wants a guy like you and not like the ones surrounding her. Don't pretend to be like all of them.

Let her know that you're interested but not obsessive or desperate.

[zman0185]

not sure of the best way to handle that but all i can say is that you should find some way to ask her out.so what if shes with someone else.life is waaaayy to short to not go after what you want.fuck that other guy hes just an obstacle.and the worst that can happen is she will say no and she at least know you exist.my solemn advice is this wait till her bf is away.get some chance and say hello intoduce yourself,be smooth with what you say.in my expereince simple and sincere always works best.make yourself an accuaintance to her,someone shes comfortable around in generall then just ask if she would like to hang out sometime,dont be to eager about it.maybe just suggest having lunch with her or if she seems ok with the idea of hanging out suggest a movie.if she says no at least your still freinds and if she says yes well then the stars the limit.always be a gentleman wemen like that.good luck...z

[Onelove420]

kill the guy then comfort the girl.

[NightProwler]

find girl whos looking for someone

[420purplehaze420]

im in that same position with a lot of girls but ive only known them all a little while (recently moved) and this one girl ive kinda secretly liked for the longest time asked me to come over to her house for new years and get wasted...never confronted her before cause her ex was in gr 12 and had a car and his own apartment so i figured she was a little to far out of my league. i dunno just ask her man dont wait around for her cause some people dont have the luck i do