To tell the sex, the males have a very distinctive " pawnbroker ball" look about them. Three tiny balls clustered together. The females have preflowering tiny white hairs at base of where bud will be. The male does not produce THC which is what gets you high so the answer is no you can't get high on the males and if you are lucky enough to have females, the male will fertilize them and produce seeds.

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