Hey Pinguin dude! give us more detail...where are you going to smoke?? when?? How?? With who?? Than if she is not sure tell her you will smoke and she can watch is not that bad and her mother won't notice and if she notices what will happen?? ask her! but how old is she??? And tell her if you can wait like 2-3 hours the high will pass by...Are you, yourself an experienced smoker??