Quote Originally Posted by ScarlettCrush
nothing is up my ass at the moment.I think this advice would work really well if you are dealing with a spoiled girl who doesn't know what she wants and is used to getting whatever she is in the mood for.I'm not one.
If more women and girls were like you, then the general advice in the orignal posting would not be necessary.

It's not a question of following the guy's advice to the letter, but just thinking of it as a guide to getting around in today's very complicated types of relationships without getting burned, or burning someone else. Everybody can come up with their own ways of improving themseves, if they want to. I was impressed because he's NOT advancing lines and techniques for men to get laid faster and/or more frequently. It's more of a throwback to the "courting" of the past. Young people have no social structure for dating anymore, and that is not good for everyone We don't have to go back to chaperones, lol,

Many of these suggestions are just hints at encouraging boys to become men be more diciplined by better controlling their "natural" instincts - which are not very civilized, at the very least. It may not be for us, but a lot of boys and girls would be better off to tone it down a bit and take things more conservativly - at least until they get to know each other well.

It wasn't very long ago that most marriages and courtships in America were "arranged" - and this still goes on in much of the world today. I'm not knocking it - it has it's good points, but to go beyond it requires maturity and experience.