Hey that's great advice! Alot of what you say makes sense. I'm the type of person that likes to be completely alone when I come home from work. At least until I get a blunt in my system. I'm usually not in a good mood. But I quickly shift. So when I come home is when I'm the least attentive. And that's when he's in my face. So I will try the no rules thing and let you know how it works. Do you think that pampering him all the time will get him too used to it? There are alot of times that I want to be left alone.