You're a good egg Daisy. Big heart and kind soul. But esralabamir (sp) isn't here, and isn't being given help from the goodness of your heart. With all the posts I had to investigate the info reported. Turns out that on 11/30/05, (2 weeks ago) he was posting his pecker and the hot chicks he hangs out with. For a family man it seems way off base. Just my opinion, do what you think is best and God (or whatever diety you choose) Bless you. luv, Kuu