Your right... I don't.
You should have seen what resources were present 15 years ago compared to today.
Get on the phone to local organizations, churches, disability agencies.
This reminds me of the wannabe bum. They live else where, park there nice car down the street and while dressed in rags, a well writen sign in hand, maybe bring family dog and stands on street corner with sign asking for money.
If your legit man.... Get off the computer and make the phone calls. Set some appointments with organizations and social workers... There's just too much local help you can gain with-out blindly asking, having asked for help by way of pay-pal.