yes, there is a lot of red tape they put us through but once thru it it works. just be patient and give yourself time to get thru the process (it sounds like you're going for permanent disability?). once you get there you'll get a check retroactive from the day you 1st applied so the sooner you get started the better. while at the social security office ask for what local services are offered. i'm sure you'll be surprised to see what all is available to those in need. yes, it does take time and often hours are spent waiting for the next available attendant but what else do you have right now? your "community services" should be your 1st stop and get your self registered for food stamps and a mediCAID card and i'd do that ASAP. you will have a fridge full of food and be on the list for gifts for the kids at the same time as well as have access to dr's with the medicaid card...later it will become a mediCARE card, once accepted for early retirement trhough disability.

good luck and get busy!