im glad u came back man was gettin kinda worried, thats awesome that your wife came back,thats a beautiful family u got . igot 3 kids myself .and u know presents aint what christmas is all about, after that horrible accident its amiracle that u guys are all still here (THank God ) and thats what matters bein with your family.. yeah things suck and you need money and things, but ya still got each other THAT is what its all about.... and i too have been ina n abusive marriage with a possesive jealous psycho asshole and i finally found a real man, so i can totally relate with your wife.. .. email me if u wanna talk [email protected] . iwish the best for your family . keep us up to date