I know how you feel guys. I quit my day job to start a biz and so far it's not working. Placed adds in local papers and passed out 300 flyers and not even one little inquiry. The bills are beginning to pile and the money is getting low so I do know just how you feel when you say you feel like a loser. My sister is a PhD and my brother is a social worker with a BA and I never finished college.
BUT!! (there's always one of those isn't there)
I also know that part of the reason is me. I need to continue educating myself in the biz of biz, so to speak and figure out how to educate the public as well. In other words things may seem a bit boring and bleak now but you can make it better. I don't think most of you are actually losers and the fact that you even think you might be is a good sign. True losers have lost site of the fact that they are what they are.