Anonomous sex with a stranger --> Definitely a common "fantasy" for men (me) ..... but the only "real" opportunity that I had in my life I turned down. I believe that this is a phase because as I've grown older, even the fantasy becomes unrealistic.

Sex in public --> Been doing this forever ..... Started with sex in the car as a teen, then on the beach on summer nights, on hikes in the woods during the day ..... My wife is always up for it which is important ..... I still do it to some extent but the thought of getting busted w/names in local paper kind of puts a damper on the excitement.

It could be the weed amplifying your desires, but it is also that time of your life (35-45) when females experience maximum libido. It'll be a wild ride for Mr. Allie, if he plays his cards right.