From the 8th grade to the 11th grade I was with the same guy and we had sex but he always wanted me to do that. I never did and with my permission he would get it from other girls(no kissing or touching also) and I didn't care at all, never gave it a thought. Now that I really think about it, that was not the serious relationship that we claimed to have. If you love someone you have to accept the fact that they don't like to do certain things and just let it go. So in other words of course its cheating.