Hmm... that last part kind of makes it sound like she is disappointed that she cannot pleasure you in that way but she wants you to experience it. ... but as for this other girl... if this is an on-going thing... I dont know. I just know that I would be PISSED if I found out my boyfriend was getting head from another girl, even if they never kissed or anything.

Just tell your girlfriend you really like it and that you'll give her oral in return and she'll probably do it for you...

- Kate