wow.

anyhow, to the question. I met mine when she was married. She left her husband and wanted me. I ran scared because I had no intention of splitting up a family. A few years later when I was confidant they were not going to reconcile we started dating. She moved in and 2 yrs later our son was born. 2 years after that we seperated and are going through a nasty ass custody battle.
Would I consider it a success? Hard to say. I found love, she found love , we shared and grew together, the children fluorished, we created a son. But, we broke down, bitterness and resentment set in , and we eroded .
We had a beautiful boy so that was a success , but we are no able to provide a traditional home for him so that was a failure.