Don't get me wrong. She's a wonderful woman and has been a great wife (not that I have anyone to compare to) and a great mom to the kids. But she doesn't even approve of me smoking cigs (faggs to you brit folk) much less reefer. For sure once all the kids move out, (one down, two to go) I will be growing whether she likes it or not. I'm pretty sure she would neither leave nor would she call the cops. She used to smoke but being a mom and, as I said a shiite catholic, she gave it up a long time ago.
I remember before we had the kids I had about 6 plants growing under flourexcents in our little apartment. Then her folks came to visit and we had to get rid of them in panic mode. Looking back it was kind of funny. Since there was no place to put them I had to kill them before they had a chance to flower.
Hung them up in a little attic area above our bedroom. But she never goes in the cold frame so there probably would be no problem and there's just enough room up there for those little lowrider plants.