Nothin' better than a sweaty, throw down, hair pullin', ass spankin', slam fuckin' good time!

A great book is Screw the Roses; Send Me the Thorns by Philip Miller and Molly Devon.......The Romance and Sexual sorcery of Sadomasochism.

Don't be thrown off by the Sado stuff. It's kinda like the bible for people into BDSM.