well i talked to her and let her know of the savings that id be making and thats what changed her mind. and plus i have a bad back and MMJ does help. i brought this up to because lately i havent had trooubles with it and she noticed this and said if it helps that shes ok with that. she asked me where i got it and when i told her i grew it from a seed she kind of was proud, because she grows a bunch of house plants, and then told me to "get another seed" or if i could save her to finish her off. so shes ok with it she just didnt like that i didnt tell her about it.