I find that my old friends, were the same way. I decided last year that I would move on and find new friends. My best friend really was the one I hated to leave behind. We grew up together and did almost everything together. But I found I was the one who always had to call her and I was the one who had to try and make plans. I also found she was always too busy for me unless she needed something from me. I haven't really found new friends that I get along with greatly and who smoke weed with me cuz some of the people I hang out with are not into that stuff. Thats cool with me but I need a smoking buddy lol. The strange thing now is that I am finding some new people to smoke with but they were my old friends...I donno its hard to explain and it would take forever to explain and I'm sure no one is interested. But now things seemed to have changed, I hang out with my cousin a lot who I was Best friends withbefore and now my other best friend, the one who seemed to use me, is starting to talk to me and call me trying to make plans with me. I figure I will give her another shot, but I'm looking out to see if she slips back to old habits of using me and treating me like crap. If she do, shes out the door and never welcomed back in my life.