i'm yet to find a girl that can make mine disappear (i ain't quite 10 inches either) ...=/ but i dunno....it doesn't really make sense to me either, when a dick is hard, you'd know if it gets bent....and i know the face of a cock being bent....and that aint the faces guys make in pornos when the whole thing is in the girls mouth....maybe there's a flesh back there on girls that is like a balloon or something and can easily expand..i can't really think where it could go, because any guy tha'ts getting his dick bent (which would have to be bent if the girl is on her knees and giving you head and deep throatin at the same time)