Quote Originally Posted by BizzleLuvin
yes, it always hurts the first time.
not really. my first time was kinda uncomfortable, but it didn't really hurt. (didn't bleed either, so that's kind of a myth, too). but yeah, go slow, and if she says to stop, then stop, don't be dissapointed if things don't work out the first (few) time(s) you try (homie tried a few times before making it all the way...everyone's different)
and yeah, it can be really awkward (i was laying there thinkin "oh shit, i'm wearing socks..." they were black, btw lol) and it wasn't really earth shattering. i was mostly amused by the mechanics of it all, but then again i'm a strange one and i'm still amused at how primal and mechanical it all is. but yeah, just enjoy yourself, listen to her, have a good time.
(and i can't stress enough...use a condom)