chowder..it isn't really a woman thing or a man thing it is a society thing. I have noticed the quality of person seriously degrading, or perhaps it has always been so, and I am just noticing. There are more people who will lie to you, steal from you, or do whatever for their own benifit around than you think. Just look how many people encouraged this guy to lie to the woman he is with. To actually encourage and advise another person to compromise or violate a really simple set of morals like- don't lie to people you love...... I can't imagine ever supporting another person's decision to be an asshole.
When you make a decision you have to look at everything, not just the way you feel, the easy way out, or what feels good right now, you have to think about long term ramifications to yourself and everyone involved. That takes someone with a wide sense of community, social responsibility and determination. It is not always easy or pleasant to do the right thing and you should start looking for women of stronger moral charicter.

ps. stop watching maury it is filled with ignorant trashy people who sleep with many numbers of folk then make fun of them afterwards and use the excuse of "I was drunk" they take no responsibility for any of their own decisions and dance around like idiots when they find out they aren't the father when truly they should show some sympathy for this poor woman who looks like an unwanted dumb slut now on national tv. Or they end up paying child support to some one night stand for the rest of their lives with the responsibility of being a father and husband, or at least baby daddy type to a chick he hardly knows for a kid he doesn't want when the whole thing could have been avoided for want of a 50 cent condom that they couldn't use because it doesn't feel right, or they didn't have one on them, or...they where drunk.

so none of the actions or decisions they made where their fault and they where such victims of circumstance.

I don't know about you but I am the motherfucking captain of my ship. I may falter or fall but I will put my good foot down and apologize all the way back up for my own dickery.
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