question about christian view of homosexuality

[psychopixi]

Could you make the concious decision NOT to eat cake? I'll bet you could, but someone who's crumbled under the temptation time and time again might not be able to say no. THe reason sex and food are so similar in context is because both are instincts we have, involving an appetite.

Okay, how about this analogy:

Cake and sex are both things you can have an appetite for. But it's only an appetite for the food, or the sex. Your preference may be only for cake, or a specific gender though. Generally, you can't consciously decide to enjoy the taste of something. Your body decides that for you. Same for sexual preference.

Ok, we're engineered to procreate with the opposite sex, if you want to talk "design". Nothing else.

Attraction is purly a spiritual/intellectual situation. There's no difference between a gay man's body and a straight man's body.

We're designed that when a male and female have sex, there is a chance of creating a baby. But what about oral sex? Is oral sex between a man and woman wrong, because there is no chance of a baby being made? What about anal sex between a man and a woman?

And, yes there is a physical difference - not on the outside, but on the inside, in the genetics - beachguy in thongs has given you evidence for that.

Babies arn't born with sex drives - dismisses that anyone's "born" gay.

No, it doesn't. They are born one way or another, because it's part of their genetics. When they develop a sex drive it will be aimed at one sex or another, or both.

Think of it like height. We obviously aren't born at the height we will eventually grow to be, but we will eventually reach that height.

What I'm doing is asking questions as to WHAT homosexuality is. So far I've found nothing other than answers telling me it's what sex becomes when left in the hands of humanity for too long.

Sex left in the hands of humanity? What do you mean by that? They've recently discovered evidence of the first gay kiss - as an Egyptian wall mural. It's not something that's happened recently because we've become bored with hetero sex!

Think about this; if sex is a divine creation with a perfect purpose, than it will niether be exploited, nor idolized (much like it is now)...I believe humanity has yet to see it's true sexuality

But it isn't a divine creation. It's just a simple fact of life. It's the way we procreate. There is no perfect purpose, there is no right way to get your happies! It's an animal instinct, not something we do because God thinks we should. I'm not Christian, and I enjoy a healthy sex life, nothing to do with a higher power.