yea =/ he to is what i fight against (btw jake i was really standing up for you, i was just making a point that involved you) the way i see it he should change his thought philosophy as well, but i can't make anyone do anything, so it's their choice, then again he just may not know how to express or deal with anger and may not acutally think the way his words dictate him as (dont' get me wrong i'm not trying to stand up for what he said >.< imo it's really wrong and just the thing i'm saying shouldn't be here int he frist place) and he just felt attacked and retaliated with the first words that came outta his head that could "attack" back. i mean come on, why would a dealer bother with choking you with a dildo when he could just shoot you?