I'm always discreet and never smoke around my kid. But everytime she gets in trouble with the law she throws the fact that I smoke as her excuse for her actions. Her court appointed counsler and her probation officer don't buy into it though, espically sinsce they found out that I don't smoke around her at all. But to hear her tell it you'd think I was blowing supercharges in her face (ha!). The other day she accused me of putting hash in her milk (as if), if I had any I certainly wouldn't waste it on her sorry ass. I went thru the same thing with my oldest also, now that she is a mother with kids of her own she wonders why she gave me such grief. I'll be sooooo glad when my youngest grows up and moves out, that way I won't have to sneek around in my own home. As my oldest child has learned with the trouble with her own kids, carma is a bitch!!!!!!!!!