just dating is ok, this leaves you open to just date as well. It may be a test to meet other people, but if she likes someone else better, or you do, that's how it works. Mabe you both go out and see other people, then realize how good you got it together. Just give it a chance, don't dump a chick just because she is honest about not wanting to be serious right now. At least she is honest with you instead of running around behind your back. This means she respects you and has a good head on her shoulders. Don't listen to these fools, those are good qualities.