I'm not going to go off on the gay subject but there is no possible way for someone to be hay from the start. somewhere down the line something happened where he/she questioned there sexuality. You cant say that the little 6, or 7 yr. old kindergarteners we have are actually gay at that age!! When i was that age we would play the kissy game and be "boyfriend-girlfriend" and i can promise you that there are no kids playing "boyfriend-boyfriend or girlfriend-girlfriend"!! Point proven