here's a few things for you to do..... GET A GODDAMN BOOK!! you only have one plant? what are you going to invest time into it and what if it turns out to be a male, time wasted then. How do you expect to keep a plant alive in winter unless you live in a tropical area. These questions make me think you need some basic knowledge. not trying to be harsh, just honest, save yourself the fustration and buy a book