Howdy PoBoy,

Were you wrong ?

Yup..anytime you cheat on your wife..it's wrong..and if yer son found out,I'd bet that he'd be dissapointed that his dad is treating his mother that way,heck..some dads have been put down pretty hard,by sons who feel that their mothers have been disrespected by their cheatin dads. I'm sure that you love your son with all of yer heart,don't do anything that will make him hate you when he grows up. You need to do your thinking with the head on yer shoulders and realize that ya can't always have what you want,that we ain't on this here earth to have pleasure every single moment,there has to be some degree of responsibility and prioritization,when yer married,yer first priority and loyalty,should be to yer wife and children..not figuring out ways to always having a party. Don't be a slave to your desires and wants..practice some restraint and put your family first. And please-stop drinking and driving !

The Black community,has a huge problem with their men being un-faithful to their wives and families..just ask Bill Cosby--he'll tell you all about it. Don't be a part of the problem..be a part of the solution..be a role model for your son and wife.

Have a good one ...