you gotta keep it under control man, I mean you can beat him up, but make sure not so much as he cant run away as you yell at him, and not have him seizuring on the floor. u probably have the kind who covers her eyes during a fight scene at the movies, and seeing it in real life freaks her out. i know that as a guy u think fights r cool, but girls have more feelings than guys and actually feel the pain that guy felt maybe she thinks its her fault that that guy ended up like that