Quote Originally Posted by grasshopper420
...she was afraid FOR me not that i could get hurt but that i could get into major trouble and she might of lost me for a very long time...
Exactly what I was going to say. I've been thru similar situations with hubby and in other relationships in my past and while the bottom line with me was "Oh hell he/we could have been killed/arrested/etc." other factors that have come into play have been:

Over reaction from hubby/boyfriends that caused unnecessary scenes, racked up unnecessary fines, got folks arrested for no good reason other than someone being a hot head.

Hubby/boyfriend's tunnel vision saw/judged events as something they weren't and then he went into auto pilot mode and all hell breaks loose.

Also if you are living together and funds are tight then one of woman's biggest stress agents is "Oh shit, how do we or how would we have kept the lights on and bail you out of jail/pay the fines/pay for a lawyer/etc."

Just let her know your sorry and you hope to never go through that again but she needs to realize your just a man and prone to a few mistakes here and there.

Stay safe,

NK - aka runinL8