So basically you now have a fantasy land where you control every fucking thing that goes on, that you can visit every night.

You lucky bastard. I've only had a few lucid dreams..a couple felt like actual real life (moreso than normal). Like..I've said to myself..is this a dream? Naw, it can't be, this is real..and then once i woke up i realized I could've done whatever I wanted! (it was like a situation where I wouldn't have done something in real life, but gone ahead in the dream).