J,

Are you going to marry her?

Dude... enjoy life as it is... when the shit hits the fan and everything comes down... you enjoyed it while you where @ the top!

Fuck as many many many times as you can with her best friend... and her...

As to you being not as good... DUDE! She's fucking a woman! You're a guy with a dick! There's NO comparison! You shouldn't have to worry. What her best friend gave her, dude, you don't have! You have a dick... give her and her friend that. Chill out...